A wonderful weekend
Highlights of my 22nd birthday:1) At midnight sharp, I received a missed call and a voice message that moved me to tears. I am serious.. I felt so touched by the early birthday greeting. Thanks ann for always being the first to wish me happy birthday! =) *hugs I have saved the message.. but can only save for 7 days. Never mind, I try to listen to it more these few days.
2) Met the tw gang for my celebration! We went ktv, have dinner and went minds cafe. They planned a great surprise! surprised me and sylvia with a cake midway through our songs. It was totally so unexpected. Earlier on, I was still grumbling to them.. " hey why never wish me happy birthday one when u see me?" :P Then we happily went minds cafe and created a mess there. We played pit which was like heart attack.. and before we even finished playing the first round, we heard" ping piang piang" because in the midst of our excitement, ym got too excited and waved his hand too far, knocking james's coffee. The cup of coffee flew off and stained on the wall. It was so paiseh.. so we decided to be guai and play 'intellectual' games instead. It was a fulfilling day for me.. so thanks the 7 dudes ( 5 girls + 2 gay guys??) for celebrating with me =) I luv you guys! whahahaa
3) We the four NEL ers stayed back to have an intimate chat.. whahhaa. Then on our way home, we met the friendliest and funniest cab driver. Eg Shannon asked us" Do you all think I look haggard now that I am working night shifts?" Upon hearing, the cab uncle turned to take a good look at Shannon closely and exclaimed" No la! You don't look haggard" He really turned to take a good look at Shannon carefully lo before he said that!!! kh thought he was looking at the cars behind.. whahaaa. His expression was so hilarious!Then Shannon coughed and wanted water.. he offered his bottle to her.whahahaa.. may be he was trying to hit on Shannon.. =)
4) I reached home and checked my email. Qm and Jy sent me an e-card combined from USA and China! I totally expected that from them.. whahhaa. Then today when I reached home, I saw a parcel!! Qm sent it to me from US! Jy did the online shopping, Qm ordered it and sent it to me. The gift was a RED dress! Jy we really have telepathy! How u know I am very into red and pink recently??! or did i tell u ar? hahahaa... Thank you two so much!! I really appreciated the long distance birthday greetings.. =)
Played so much over last weekend.. Sunday got a cousin's wedding dinner to attend too. As usual, gatherings with my dear cousins are always so enjoyable and funny. Will try to upload these photos soon.. I felt so happy! lalalaa...
tui houBeen hearing this song everywhere.. one of the best in Jay's latest album.
For Minqian and 33
Read through my archives just now and memories start to flow back. Friends around me have played such an important part of my life.. I am sorry that I take some of them for granted.
To Minqian and 33,
Sorry girls that I postphoned the meet up the other time. This time around, I will definitely see you two soon!! Take care and I cant wait to meet u girls for a round of *itching session! =)
Started work recently..saw this very cute young guy in investment operations. He's very tall and very good-looking. I should say he's an excellent eye-candy but I dun feel so blown away by his handsome looks. I notice however a supervisor in his 30 plus.. he's very dark, average but there's something about him that made me pay attention to him. I think it's because on my first day of work, I was told to look for him. He was quite friendly and smiled so paisehly to me when he has to tell me to wait a while. He's quite sei and serious in his work.. hahahaa. Ren zhen de nan ren zhui shuai!! omg.. what if shannon is right about me liking old guys? i just think the supervisor is charming in his own ways. As usual, I have proven that I am not a superficial person. whahaha.
Met a friend for dinner on Tuesday. Quite a last minute arrangement.. we only met up a short while but I think it's the first time I have heard him talk so much. It's funny.. he was complaining how he has too much cash in his wallet but he said it too late after dinner. I would be very helpful to spend more of his cash away.. haha. Talked mostly about work.. din crap that much. It's a nice get away from work during the week...
Life is so fragile.. some dreadful things happened and they are just not within your control. It made me realise how fortunate my life is, with my parents and brothers (sister-in-law included), also with the great friends around. I was once somebody who tries to hide her emotions and be indifferent.. even if I am very happy, I can just act bo chup. Hence, I find it difficult to tell those that I cherish and love that I really love them a lot. However during recent years, I found myself able to open up more to my family and friends gradually.
Sigh.. we never what may happen tomorrow.. yupz so to all my loved ones, I just want to say
"I luv ya!" through my blog.. hahaa cos I may not be able to say in face to face. Live like there's no tomorrow.. think about happy things and be optimistic about everyday. We dun want to leave the world with any regrets.. hmm easier said than done right?
Ps: I think there's a misunderstanding with a friend that i have not keep in touch. I have no idea why she's doing this but I wun be affected, just rather bewildered by her behaviour. When did i offend her? She din even sms me yet she's accusing me. Anyway, my friends know what kind of friend I am.. yeah so there's no need to clear things up.
真正爱你的男孩
真正爱你的男孩，一下子说不出真正爱你的理由，只知道自己顾不上注意别人。
真正爱你的男孩，其实总惹你生气，却发觉不了他到底做错了什么。
真正爱你的男孩，很少当面赞美你，可是心里肯定你是他最棒的。
真正爱你的男孩，会在你忘记回复他短信时狠狠地的说你一顿。
真正爱你的男孩，只可能在你一个人的面前流眼泪，当你触摸到它们时，也触摸到了那颗只为你跳动的心。
真正爱你的男孩，会默默地记住你不经意说过的话，在某时某刻重复它们。
真正爱你的男孩，不会轻易做出承诺，因为他想让自己成为你心中说话最算话的男子汉，只想给你最可靠最安全的幸福。
真正爱你的男孩，总告诉你不要胡思乱想，因为其实他在为你们谋划着最美丽真实的未来。
同时让你无忧无虑地等待他要给你的惊喜。
真正爱你的男孩，可能不像你一样清楚的记得某些纪念日，他觉得爱你是每时每刻的，并不是靠这几天简单的日子。
真正爱你的男孩，不会轻易对你当面说“我爱你”，因为他为你做过的每件事都已经这么说了。除非在非常时刻，为了不让你无端地误解他。
真正爱你的男孩，总觉得有些话只说一遍就够了，因为你已经了解他的心。说得多了，他会觉得不珍贵。
真正爱你的男孩，如果他去机场接你，不会像你期望的那样捧着玫瑰大声叫“亲爱的”，只是自然的提过你的行李，然后想用眼睛抱紧你似的心疼地说，怎麽瘦得像豆芽菜了？
真正爱你的男孩，当你发脾气时，只会不做声地听你把火发完，然后慢慢地说，你明天有课吗？早点睡吧。
真正爱你的男孩，不懂当你生气挂掉电话后应该立即打来，过了若干小时后会发条短信问你消气了没有？如果你质问他为何这么久才打来，他会理直气壮地说，你生气时我的解释一定没有用，等你的火消了，我的解释才有效果。
真正爱你的男孩，总是叫你小姑娘，可是每次他做什么重大的决定，却总想先听听你的建议。
真正爱你的男孩，不喜欢玩具小毛熊，却一直把你送他的小熊放在床头。
真正爱你的男孩，当和你发生争执时，总是控制不了地先妥协，先承认“我错了”，过后发来短信以“神经病”开头，以“宝贝”结尾。事实上你也清楚，这次是你有点无理取闹。
真正爱你的男孩，很想很想你时，也会买玫瑰送你，傻傻地等着你，却不知道自己捧的是月季。没关系，他的心里送的是玫瑰。
真正爱你的男孩，嘴巴都不甜，但是他的吻能传递他所有的热情。
真正爱你的男孩，当听到你对他讲很“酸”的话时，他反而会装地很正经，其实心里很甜很甜。
真正爱你的男孩，如果不能经常见到你，他会让自己忙碌起来，为了不去想你，因为他知道一想你将会一发不可收拾。.
.....你找到了谁才是真正爱你的男孩吗？
This was from a gd friend's blog.. courtesy of Beida's BBS.
Reading this reminded me of Kh immediately.. gal now you know why he always reacted that way.. hahaaa.
I finally got the chance to meet up with my cute cousin last week. He's such a sweetie can.. took half a day leave from camp to meet me. He's the same age as me.. 1.73m tall, tanned and very fit guy! He even knows how to scuba dive. What a cool cousin I have ah.. He's rather shy and quiet, so half the time I was like the one crapping away. Dun remember why we have become close.. we weren't that close when young.. only these recent years. Apparently he will soon be attached if he finally goes tell the girl how he feels. That guy din tell me anything at all although we keep in touch through sms. He knows the girl at his ocs commission ball.. she was his date, a friend's friend. So cute hor!! the way they know each other. Now he's thinking of how to tell the girl, dunno when he will tell though. The other time when he sent me photos of his comm ball, with him and the girl, my mum was like " That's Wenhan's girlfriend ar?" Now it's really coming true. :) I think he will get the girl.. they have been going out and based on the good calibre of my cousin, he will succeed. hahahaa. Go for it dude! Hope I can see her next CNY.
Ps: I was at home yesterday on a saturday..an auntie came and saw me.. first question" U never go out date ar? So guai" This is not the first time she asked me such a questions.. like 3 or 4 times le. Each time I smile and said yeah no. I really need to go out more often with my lesbian partner le.. right Jun?
Here's to Jiaying (SRY SHE'S NOT FOR SALE)
She is a very good friend of mine that I have known for 9 years! She wanted to claim credit for being such an excellent friend, hence forced me to put her photo on my blog. So tada! this entry is especially for her. Pretty gal right? too bad SHE'S ATTACHED! SHE'S SOLD! I wonder why I am forced to put her photo here to sell..
For recent years, she has been away for studies in China. Although we did not get to see each other that often, we still managed to talk so much each time we meet up.
She's the best person that can go buffet with me cos she eats as much as I do! Once we even drank 10 cups of KFC freeflow EACH at the KFC near DHS. Up till now,
I still can't find someone that can replace her as my best makan buddy! We both luv to eat!
We used to have the same weight each year.. but I am taller!! The only time I put on weight was during my secondary school days when I hanged out with her the most! I really put on weight and my face was round! However,
those days were definitely the happiest days of my life I should say.. the two of us can hang out in the np room after school, talk crap with the rest of my squadmates and have lunch after that. I wonder how I have time to complete my school work.
Once during training camps, the seniors tried to create conflict between us. Everyone knows we are the best of friends ever.. hahaa.. I still remember Rizhu mdm tried to make us quarrel but too bad for her, it did not work! we knows it's part of training camp tactics. Have we ever quarrel? Hmm..seriously I dun remember..we know each other's family affairs pretty well. The unkind relatives we have.. things we only share with each other. Did we share our crushes? Hmm.. she did share with me.. I think I shared mine too. Wah Wei.. the head of St John.. u still remember? he's shorter than me but he's a serious and responsible guy. For a period of time, I think he's quite cool. wahhahaa.. this gal always said I have weird taste in guys. Her crushes will be Fei Ming?? Wx?? oops..
What else ar? she's quite similar to Angela..meaning in terms of their characters. And they both end up with guys that are not that tall.. wahahaha :P sorry to sa xiao zi and mick!
Just met her recently too.. but she's back in China already. Will miss her presence in Singapore!!
Ps: Saw her bro,Ivan's photos on friendster. He has grown so much.. the first time I see him, he's just a small 10 year old that eats a lot. Now he looks like a small hunk.. hahhaa.
I feel old just looking at him..
How to Date Like Crazy and Still Get 'The One'
I can just die.. blogged something just now and my lousy com hanged! ARGHHH!
Thou shall write in summary:
Abtracted from an article in Channels Magazine for Social Development Services..
Old conservative concept: WAIT for chances to happen with a member of the opposite gender
New Bold concept: MAKE chances happen with a member of the opposite gender
Date 'many ones' to find 'The One' VS let nature take its course and wait passively for 'The One' to appear. Singles like us have proven that the old mindset has killed almost all of us.. it's time to date many and find the right one. However, first of all you need to have many dates to start with.. my present situation is like dateless can. With no dates, my hit rate is like zero. hahaa.. I think that's the common situation among my single friends.. with that, we have backup plans coming up..
All of us want to find the right one... the perfect guy or gal with chemistry before we do something. That's why we wait and wait but how to gauge if he/she is The One if we dun even have the chance to go on a date? Nevertheless, there are some people that you know you would never be attracted to.. that's why you would never go on a date with them. I am like a passive person when it comes to relationship..a close friend told me a passive meets a passive... what do you think will happen? Nothing because both of you do nothing! Hmm.. may be that explains my present status.
